What is personality? Personality is far beyond just the way you view yourself but it has a lot to do with how other view you. How people around you think of you, how exactly they defined you, and how they addressed you. That is your true personality, that is your true image. People result to visual judgement since that is all we can see. No normal human beings can see beyond the physical. Exactly the way you appear on the outside is how you will be judged by those around you. They don't care about the content of your heart because since they can't see it, it's of no use to them.
There is a need for self assessment. Check yourself, identify which side you fall into. You can either be a lady with virtue or the opposite. There is this popular saying that; dress up the way you want to be addressed. The way you dress determine the set of people you attract to your life. And the way you dress also determine the type of VISUAL JUDGEMENT you get. People get judgemental but the first step to them delivering their judgement on you is your appearance. When you dress radical, yes you will be sexy and hot. But where will that sexuality leads you? What can it attract to your life? The truth is that your image will get burned by that hotness. Your personality will be fried up with that hotness. People will say; is he/she not the one? What can he /she offer? You will gradually lose your stand and be dejected in the society. Build a positive visual judgement.
When you come to a self realization, and you are fully aware of what virtues are deposited in you, then it will become so difficult for you to go about half naked. Men and women of virtue are so conscious of their outer appearance.
Avoid negative visual judgement. Don't just dress anyhow just because you want to get a hundred likes on Facebook. Your life is far more important than that.
Go with dignity. Go with decency. Be a lady/man of virtue. Attract only positive visual judgement to yourself.