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Stop Living a Porous Life
Some are just so lose that they can hardly controls what goes in or out of their life. They allow circumstances and life scenarios to be a major determinant of their life situations.
Whenever you sleep blank without even taking a moment to visualise what tomorrow holds, you are definitely living a porous life. You allow your precious life to go by the popular phrase "God knows tomorrow". Yes God knows tomorrow and even beyond, but on your own path need to search for what tomorrow truly holds. Don't be an empty slate because when you are, life's circumstances will definitely fill it for you.
Another scenario of a porous lifestyle is when you just allow anyhow friend or just anybody that you know fully well that he/she cannot add anything positive to your life, yet you allow such persons in and out of your life at ease. You need to realise that you are not meant to associate with just anybody that comes your way. That is why the need arises for you to group your friends and relate with them accordingly.
Yes, you have a destiny (we all do), but you need to know that you are the chief custodian of your destiny. You are in charge and its high time you set some rules and develop a principled lifestyle.
Say NO to bad influence, lack of direction an focus, living I concord lifestyle. Live a life of principles and STOP been POROUS.
I hope this article helps you as I intended.
I am KELVIN OLUSEYI ELETA. An author, writer, speaker, and an active member of HopeDose int'l. Kindly contact us for your Seminars, Presentations, Leadership Conference e.t.c.
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